Junior shares his inspiring journey toward independence — made possible through SARRC programs like PEERS for Adolescents and CommunityWorks, which helped him build social skills and confidence along the way.
By Juan (Junior) Jacobo
My name is Juan Jacobo Jr., but everyone calls me “Junior.” I am 18 years old. I was diagnosed with autism at 5 years old. When I was younger, I was nonverbal, had learning difficulties, and had many sensory issues. I had trouble making friends and living a “normal” social life. This also caused transitional issues at the charter school I attended, which led to me being homeschooled.
Doctors told my parents I would never talk, read, write or drive. Boy, did I prove them wrong! My autism journey has led me to explore many things in my life, but it has also helped me conquer fears. Around 10 years old, I started playing one of the loudest instruments, the drums, because loud noises scared me. My awesome music teacher, Mr. Steve, not only taught me to play the drums by ear, but also taught me to read music. My parents eventually invested in a drum set so I could practice at home. I am glad I took the chance as I continue to play and learn today.
Other experiences that provided me with more confidence and discovery of new things include Legos and cars. My parents took me to my first Monster Truck show. I wasn’t afraid of the loud noises the cars were making, instead I was excited about the show! My mom still made us all wear the earplugs because it was very loud, and we had really close-up seats. When I went to my first Lego convention it was not only exciting and fun, but a true test of applying my coping skills. I knew that I might get anxious and overwhelmed with everything going on, so I stopped, breathed and calmed myself.
At a very young age, I expressed an interest in sports, but my parents knew that due to my coordination and lack of balance, I would struggle playing traditional sports. I was also diagnosed with cortical fibrosis, which affected the mobility in my legs. So my parents signed me up for the Special Olympics with the City of Scottsdale Bobcats. I started playing golf as my first sport. Throughout my six years with the Bobcats, I have competed in golf, bocce, bowling, flag football, basketball, soccer, swim, powerlifting and track and field.
My favorite sport continues to be golf. I just finished my second year competing in Partner Golf with my dad. I am glad that I get to play and compete in a sport that both my dad and I enjoy. Last year was my second year playing soccer, and I am proud to share I was made Team Captain. I felt proud of myself and found the confidence to help my teammates!
A major milestone I accomplished a year ago toward reaching some personal independence was obtaining my driver’s license. Now I am looking forward to my next goal, which is obtaining a job.
Participating in PEERS for Adolescents and CommunityWorks at SARRC has provided me with additional tools to believe in myself. I have met new friends and have been able to build longer-lasting friendships. In addition, I feel less anxious speaking to others, and I have attended other activities that I previously would have never joined in the past.
“The future looks bright. I will continue to work hard and fight.”